Queen  Favor-Wheeler

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  • Queen Favor-Wheeler

Dear white man

Updated: Aug 22, 2019

I am angry that you can't see past your wallet, comfort and fear. I am angry that you can't see past my color or gender. I am angry that you talk over me and think you have something to teach me. I am angry that you treat me as your inferior. I am angry that I have had to adjust to accommodate what you deem as important, true or worthy. I am angry that you manipulate and scheme using what others hold sacred. I am angry that you are in control of the outcomes for so many who you do not hold as valuable. I am angry that you got the upper hand by force and refuse to admit to it. I am angry that you talk in secret and act as if you are the savior chosen by god. I am angry that you have chosen to destroy our food, water and land for the sake of profit while creating your own safety nets. I am angry that you don't see it necessary to answer for your actions let alone repent. I am angry when you are let off the hook because of your empty words. I am angry when you act untouchable by the common perils of humans. I am angry that you control the narrative that paints you as hero and punisher of the sinful.


It hurts me when you choose not to use your power to stop the causes of others suffering. It hurts me when you pretend that you don't know how we got here therefore pretending to not know how to undo it. It hurts me when you add burdens that you refuse to help carry. It hurts me to see how your children have been affected. It hurts me to see how my children have been affected. It hurts me that others are blindly conditioned.


I am scared that your veil will cause the loss of life of many more people. I am scared that your policies and laws will break the backs of those who have had to bare them. I am scared that you won't find your way back. I am scared that you are scared which makes you dangerous.


I am sorry that so many are suffering. I am sorry that people of color are rotting in jail. I am sorry that black men are being killed. I am sorry that those looking for refuge are harshly turned away. I am sorry that cures for diseases are withheld. I am sorry that children are cold, hungry and scared. I am sorry that war exists.


What I really want is autonomy for humanity. What I really want is peace within and without. What I really want is justice. What I really want is for the veil to be removed so that we can go deeper into the healing process.


I love & appreciate you for showing up to the conversation.